I have waited to post this until after today's appointment. Amy's appointment was post-poned since her pathology has been sent to different labs for treatment options.
Wednesday after the surgery the surgeon and pathologist both agreed that the masses are cancerous. I talked to the surgeon and requested that Amy not be told of her condition until her follow up appointment. This was done out of love because I did not want her to worry until the tests were completed. It was very hard to keep this information from her but I thought it was the best thing to do. It was also one of the hardest thing I have had to do so far.
The surgeon called Amy today to tell her about the delay with the tests for follow up care and forgot that we were keeping the diagnosis quite until Amy's appointment. So needless to say it has been a long day.
For now we are concentrating on Amy healing from a very difficult surgery.
My wife is the strongest person I have ever met. We will fight and win this battle together.